Are you on Tinder or other dating mobile applications? After creating a great profile that features some witty jokes and beautiful photos of yourself – shouldn’t you be getting a lot of dates? After all, you’re swiping to your heart’s content and probably messaging multiple people at the same time, but why haven’t you actually had many dates?

Relationship expert Matthew Hussey shares 5 tips on how you can turn Tinder messages into actual meetups: