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Love languages and how to make it work in your relationship

Speaking the language of love is something every individual in a relationship should learn.

An invaluable skill, understanding your love language and that of your partner can not only make you ore understanding of your partner, it also fosters a great bond between you and your partner. The theory of love languages was made popular by the 1995 book by Gary Chapman “The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate.” The book focuses on the 5 main ways people speak and understand emotional love.

There are 5 love languages. According to a family-based report on the dynamics of love, the 5 love languages include words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service and physical touch. These varied languages all work differently to communicate love and appreciation to our loved ones.

1. Words of Affirmation

If your partner loves receiving words of affirmation, it is essential to show them they are appreciated and loved. Kind words are always welcome and can be a great way to build a bond. Affirming your love for your partner can be as easy as saying you appreciate their positive spirit.

2. Quality Time

Though we might be living in the digital age, it is important to set aside some time to spend with your loved one face to face. Setting aside some special time to catch up and talk uninterrupted is a great way to show how much you appreciate your partner. For many, the location where you spend may not be as significant as the gesture to make time for them.

3. Receiving Gifts

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Often with social media raising expectations and cultivating unrealistic standards, it is important to remain grounded. The principle of gift giving within a relationship should not be a matter of quantifying your love or showing how big your wallet is. If your partner values gift giving it is essential that you thoughtfully select a gift. Always remember it is not the cost of the gift, but the gesture behind it.

4. Acts of Service

It is very easy to throw money to any situation, however, it takes humility and a giving heart to serve someone else. Whether your partner loves a massage or a simple home-cooked meal, doing it for them could mean the world to them. It might be important to also learn your love language, take the test here.

5. Physical Touch

According to research, physical touch is a way of communicating emotional love. “Numerous research projects in the area of child development have made that conclusion: Babies who are held, stroked and kissed develop a healthier emotional life than those who are left for long periods of time without physical contact.” If your partner’s love language is physical touch, ensure that you offer that reassurance.

Communication and understanding are important components of love. Keep the fire burning by speaking your partner’s love languages.

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