Thanks for telling it like it is. Some are vilified for refusing to be the “martyr” wives are expected to be by society, looking the other way when infidelity (emotional and otherwise) happens. Adultery of any kind is not okay. Plain and simple. As for the wives “getting even” by having affairs too? Two wrongs don’t make a right.
There is no such thing as a “Christian nation” and even if one existed, the level of HIV/AIDS in Kenya demonstrates that you are certainly not living in one. Kenya is a secular state.
By the way, I consider myself a Christian.
It’s all well to pontificate about staying faithful to one partner, BUT, we must accept that human beings are sexual and sensual beings. It’s in the human DNA. If a partner withholds sex or is unable/unwilling to satisfy the sexual needs of their mate, or has a physiological problem but they won’t get help for it (loads of men suffer from ED silently!); then in those circumstances; I’d say adultery is not only inevitabLe but also necessary.