The 64-year-old guy – know only as Jan – says he never suspected Monica, 48, could be a man, even during sex, and now feels like he’s been ”assaulted”.
He told the Het Nieuwsblad newspaper: ”I feel I’ve been assaulted. I thought she was an attractive woman, all woman.
”She had no male traits. Even during sex, I never noticed anything.”
Jan finally confronted Monica after hearing rumours she use to be a man, and he was left devastated when she confirmed his suspicions.
He added: ”A friend told me that he had heard that Monica was actually a sex-changed man. I could not believe it. My son heard similar rumours.
”I pushed her against the wall and said, ‘Now I know the truth. Are you a man?’ She then announced that she was born as a boy and that she had been operated on.
”She was now a woman, and so she did not need to tell me about her past as a man. My world collapsed.”