, NAIROBI, Kenya March 21 – The controversial Amendments to the Marriage Bill have sparked mixed reactions from gender groups, with some terming them as insensitive and biased.
George Nyakundi, a legal officer at the Centre for Rights Education and Awareness says that the Bill will have a negative ripple effect on the family set up and is a recipe to domestic squabbles.
“When it comes to properties after the death of a husband, if the Bill is passed then it will be shared equally amongst all irrespective of who contributed more.”
“Unfortunately in most cases the first wife is the one who has toiled the hardest compared to the other wives yet her opinion is not sought in this regard,” explained Nyakundi.
Grace Wambui another officer at the centre cautioned that the Bill will not only affect women, but also the man who would face a bigger financial burden in order to provide for the family if he marries more than one woman.
“The cases of unpaid child support are on the increase and it is a shame that some of these Members of Parliament are listed as defaulters.”
“This Bill allows men to marry any number of women without consent yet they will still receive the same income as they did with one wife so then how will he provide for the whole family?” Wambui questioned.
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Mumbi Wanjau a mother of five argued that the bible allows for one man for one woman adding that the Bill was defying the Bible something she termed ‘sinful’.
“You cannot claim to love more than one woman or man, you cannot share the love, it is impossible even the Bible has refused it so why are we agreeing to it?”
“When they say without the woman’s consent, how can a woman give consent allowing her man to marry another woman anyway?” the mother of five asked.
Beryl Omondi a college student turned the debate around saying that if the Bill allows the man to marry more than one woman without consulting then the same should be applicable to the woman.
“I would also want the woman to have that kind of fairness stipulated for them in the law, meaning if the man is allowed to marry another woman without the wife’s consent then the woman should be allowed the same,” she recommended.
Members of the National Assembly extended Thursday’s sitting to pass controversial amendments to the Marriage Bill despite spirited opposition from female MPs.
Male MPs ganged up to delete the clause that had required a husband in a customary marriage to seek consent from his wife before marrying a second wife.