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I\u2019m trying to figure out the characteristics of a dream wife. I am a woman, so gathering points on the subject is sort of a challenge, but I still have to come up with my own set of list. I ask around hoping to find the right, if not absurd answers from the men themselves.<\/p>\n
Some women find men\u2019s version of a \u2018dream\u2019 wife very unrealistic. Even from long ago, men were viewed as chauvinistic creatures bent on ruling the women with iron fists. That perception has been swept under the rug and change has become inevitable. A woman\u2019s place is no longer in the kitchen but in the boardroom with the men, discussing future investments. Pretty far from the caveman theory highly upheld back then. But I\u2019m wondering whether that has been more of a curse than a blessing.<\/p>\n
Most men do not sit well with the idea of the \u2018over-independent\u2019<\/strong> woman. These to them, are stubborn and filled with pride because of what they have achieved in life. Others might find this very appealing though and not care much, but most do.<\/p>\n I think us women overdo it at times. We are so full of this sense of accomplishment that it no longer serves to make us feel good, but serves as a reason to make us feel better and superior than our men. Especially, if they earn less or have a lower rank than you at work. Avoid this at all costs! Remember that men are usually very competitive and anything that may be viewed as a threat to them is always handled with caution and disdain.<\/p>\n We are not all virgins (which is like a dream come true to all men).This doesn\u2019t give women the right to sleep around (I\u2019m talking about being an outright whore; pardon me).When a man finds out how many men you\u2019ve slept with, it sorta distorts his earlier perception of you. (Take it more as a\u2026 suddenly fogged windscreen on a clear sunny afternoon. Yes you can see ahead, but the view is still irritating to look past.) He\u2019ll be like after all, so and so has already \u2018hit that\u2019.<\/p>\n Be modest<\/strong> and mysterious<\/strong> at the same time. Make him envy the previous men\u2026not pity them. Again this differs from man to man, some have absolutely no problem with it, so I urge you to confirm that with your spouse.<\/p>\n Enough said then. What is a dream woman?<\/strong> As one expert said; it\u2019s a lady on the streets, a \u2018freak\u2019 in the sheets, and one hell of a cook! Of these, what are you lacking? What are you best at? Are you a jack of all but a master of none? Questions to ponder…<\/p>\n Sometimes I don\u2019t think if you lack one of these traits your spouse will love you less, yet, we have to strive to master them all. It\u2019s the harsh reality girls. If you don\u2019t believe me, ask a woman who you genuinely think has succeeded in this. You will find that she agrees.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not hard, merely requires willpower and brains. You should not be a slave to any of these rules but strive to bend them to your advantage. He doesn\u2019t like your cooking? Fine, find another way of enjoying that food. Behind closed doors perhaps? With him as your main dish or you adorned in his favorite salad? Are you slowly getting the picture? Good. You don\u2019t have to be a good cook to make him rush home after work. It\u2019s not the best solution, but it will buy you some time as you try to solve other issues instead of just making them worse.<\/p>\n Women are intelligent creatures but sometimes that is usually destroyed by letting emotions get the best of them. It distorts your judgment and makes you vulnerable and needy. Avoid that.<\/p>\n Men dislike \u2018overly emotional\u2019<\/strong> women .The nagging women who always want to be catered to. It gets tiring and irritating at some point as much as men like to rescue damsels in distress. Show him your soft side but don\u2019t let it go beyond that; using your emotional fragility to trap him and use him doesn\u2019t work at all. Be strong and dependable at times, who said men don\u2019t have their weak moments? At the end of the day, he just wants somebody he can share his dreams and experiences with, not a complaints commission.![\"HAPPY_COUPLE_2_348441678.jpg\"](\"https:\/\/www.capitalfm.co.ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/files\/HAPPY_COUPLE_2_348441678.jpg\" "\\"HAPPY_COUPLE_2_348441678.jpg\\"")
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