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<\/p>\nIf you\u2019re a woman, I\u2019m sure you know that most men will always comeback. They will resurface in your spectacular life because they finally have realized what they\u2019ve lost, they\u2019re selfish and just want to smooth things over to make themselves feel better, and finally because they\u2019re arrogant enough to believe that you\u2019ll always be there.<\/p>\n
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Now, in the event that your beau does resurface, and ask for forgiveness\u2026<\/p>\n
Tool<\/strong>: You ever going to forgive me? I’m sorry! Want to put it right… And then, your beau (whom is quickly digging his grave, oops, I meant spot for himself in your toolbox) continues to offer explanations for everything else but for the real \u201cinsert your issue here\u201d \u2013 this is a classic case of being evasive and \u201casking for forgiveness when he doesn\u2019t know why.\u201d<\/p>\n <\/br> Seriously, I find it so annoying when men are so quick to ask for forgiveness thinking this is the best way to \u201cset things straight,\u201d but end up finding their little strategy backfiring.<\/p>\n When you don\u2019t know why your girlfriend or wife is displeased with you, do not jump to pulling out the please-forgive-me card \u2013 seriously, it\u2019s getting old.<\/p>\n The more you apologize without conviction, the more you\u2019re pouring acid on the delicate trust between you and your partner.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t want your wifey to be thinking, \u201cOh, here he goes again\u201d when really, you don\u2019t want her thinking at all \u2013 you just want her to listen and accept your apology, wholeheartedly.<\/p>\n
\nYou<\/strong>: That sounds like a relatively stupid question
\nTool<\/strong>: The reason I wanted to meet you & spend some time with you was to explain THE FACTS to you as a lot of the “info” you’ve based your thoughts & decisions on, are false. All I wanted to do was set the record straight, that’s all…. Just wish you hadn’t written me off before you had accurate info….!
\nYou<\/strong>: it’s up to you to give me the accurate info, you never refuted. “Are you ever going to forgive me?” before doing anything to make me understand etc. just sounds selfish.<\/em><\/p>\n
\nWhat\u2019s the point of forgiveness when it\u2019s empty talk?<\/strong><\/p>\n