{"id":4213,"date":"2011-08-17T09:15:20","date_gmt":"2011-08-17T09:15:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.capitalfm.co.ke\/lifestyle\/?p=4213"},"modified":"2011-08-17T10:48:19","modified_gmt":"2011-08-17T10:48:19","slug":"how-to-talk-to-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.capitalfm.co.ke\/lifestyle\/2011\/08\/17\/how-to-talk-to-men\/","title":{"rendered":"How to talk to men"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.capitalfm.co.ke\/lifestyle\/files\/2011\/08\/how-to-talk1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4220\" title=\"how-to-talk\" src=\"https:\/\/www.capitalfm.co.ke\/lifestyle\/files\/2011\/08\/how-to-talk1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"408\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.capitalfm.co.ke\/lifestyle\/files\/2011\/08\/how-to-talk1.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.capitalfm.co.ke\/lifestyle\/files\/2011\/08\/how-to-talk1-300x244.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>(PASTOR WA) Personalities notwithstanding, there is a way <strong>to talk to Men.<\/strong> It may   sound incredulous at first, but hang with me. It sometimes seems almost   impossible to get through to a\u00a0man&#8217;s\u00a0thick skull. It&#8217;s like hitting  your  fist against a wall trying to have him listen, co-operate and  fully  grasp with intent everything you are trying to tell him.<\/p>\n<p>Well,  here&#8217;s  the biggest mistake most women make in their attempt to talk to  the  masculine type.<br \/>\n<strong>They talk to them like they talk to women.<\/strong>And it fails. Every time.<br \/>\nSurprised? well, you shouldn&#8217;t be. Men are different from women,   especially when it comes to <strong>&#8216;hearing<\/strong>&#8216;. By that, it&#8217;s not just what   you&#8217;re churning from your mouth, nope. It&#8217;s two critical components of   any conversation. <strong>Tone of voice<\/strong> and <strong>body language.<a href=\"https:\/\/www.capitalfm.co.ke\/lifestyle\/files\/2011\/08\/sweetie1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-4215\" title=\"sweetie\" src=\"https:\/\/www.capitalfm.co.ke\/lifestyle\/files\/2011\/08\/sweetie1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">1. When you talk to a man, make sure you get into his head before you start rolling.<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\nMen process one thing at a time. If a guys mind is on something, he may   be looking at you, smiling at you, holding your hand, and even be silent.   But not there! He will grunt and nod as you talk, but dear sis, he&#8217;s  not  getting it. He will even tell you he is listening. But he isn&#8217;t.  And  the truth is, he is not INTERESTED! Now most men won&#8217;t tell you  that,  coz you&#8217;ll bite his head off, but it&#8217;s the truth. It takes effort  to  grab a hold of his attention. You have to say for example, sweetie,  i  want to talk to you, are you ready now or do we do it in 30 minutes?   Once he hears that, he will have something programmed to take his   attention. Proceed based on His answer.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">2. Schedule, Schedule, Schedule<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\nThe typical guy doesn&#8217;t want to discuss issues for long and draw out   emotions all the time. It&#8217;s tiring work (I guess when God pulled Eve   from Adam&#8217;s side, the bigger chunk of his emotional capabilities went   with the woman!). Men have modes, <strong>work mode, home mode, bed mode, listen   mode, friends mode<\/strong>&#8230; The list is endless. The point is to maximize  the  listen mode. \u00a0I think it falls under the work category. So schedule  to  talk to him like a task.<\/p>\n<p>Women assume that if he loves me he will  make  time to emotionally lay down everything and listen to my heart.  While  this is the ultimate goal for the male kind, it really takes  years of  training and effort to master. In the meantime. Schedule  talks, and let  him know you will want to talk about something at a  particular time.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">3. Don&#8217;t dwell on details unless he asks for them<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\nIf you want to reap a listening harvest when you talk to your man, let   him know what you expect from him. For example, I just want you to   listen to me. Don&#8217;t give me answers, don&#8217;t try and &#8216;fix&#8217; me, just   listen. If you want him to take care of something, let him know you will   want his action and will be depending on his actions next. As you  talk,  keep a straight path if you want to give him information. If you  are  talking just so he can listen, then you can ramble on and on.  Giving too  much information without him listening.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><strong>4. Make sure there is something &#8216;tangible&#8217; or practical for him to do following \u00a0the convo.<\/strong><\/span><br \/>\nMen love to fix things. 10 seconds after you start talking to any man,   He is thinking about solutions. Period! We think, ok, how can i fix  this  situation so it doesn&#8217;t bother this woman ever again?<br \/>\nSo naturally, he will get more from conversations that will require his   &#8216;fixing&#8217; addiction. You figure out what it is, and engage it. When you   just want a listening ear, make sure you talk to him away from   distractions.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.capitalfm.co.ke\/lifestyle\/files\/2011\/08\/mufasa1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-4219\" title=\"mufasa\" src=\"https:\/\/www.capitalfm.co.ke\/lifestyle\/files\/2011\/08\/mufasa1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><strong><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">5. Its OK to repeat yourself<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\nI&#8217;m not sure why this is so, but if you just can&#8217;t seem to get things   done the first time. Repeat what you are saying. In fact with greater   emphasis subsequently! Men do not mind having things repeated to them.   However, If you want things done to end the repetition. Put consequences   or rewards at the end of every action taken in response to your talk.   You will be amazed. Men respond to consequence rapidly. Because it  draws  the conqueror in them to accomplish something to gain something.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><strong>6. Do NOT, and I mean, DO NOT, Attack a man&#8217;s ego<\/strong><\/span><br \/>\nIf you cut a man down, make him feel like a loser as you talk to him,  or  even correct him, you are simply instigating an inner fight  mechanism.  He will refuse to do things or just frustrate you because he  wants to  prove a point to you. What point? you ask. Well, the point  that he is  the king in the scenario. He is to be honored. A man will do  anything to  boost his ego. Including carry a handbag (I hear a storm  brewing!). My  point is, If you make a man feel like King Mufasa, you  won&#8217;t have to beg  for things to be done. His ability to respond to your  wishes will be  upgraded PAP! Trust me on this one.<\/p>\n<p>Well&#8230;. I guess this needs to be continued sometime next week!<br \/>\nI&#8217;m just sayin&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/pastorwa.blogspot.com\/2011\/06\/how-to-talk-to-men.html\" target=\"_blank\"><strong><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Visit the author&#8217;s blog here<\/span><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(PASTOR WA) Personalities notwithstanding, there is a way to talk to Men. It may sound incredulous at first, but hang with me. It sometimes seems almost impossible to get through to a\u00a0man&#8217;s\u00a0thick skull. It&#8217;s like hitting your fist against a wall trying to have him listen, co-operate and fully grasp with intent everything you are trying to tell him. 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