1. It is very dangerous to marry someone you are not sexually attracted to.

2. You might be attractive to people to get them curious to engage you, but your character will determine whether they stay interested in you.

3. Both someone coming to use you and someone coming to love you will tell you sweet words and desire you sexually, it is for you to discern.

4. The myth of “You attract who you are” is not fully true. As a good person, you will attract both the good and the bad. Good is attractive to all.

5. Your ability to hold amazing and interesting conversations is what will make you a keeper. No one wants to marry someone boring or whose talk is flat. Companionship is the central goal of marriage.

6. You can know you two have sexual chemistry and tension without having sex.

7. Be careful of people who are quickly generous with affectionate names and words, they might be doing it to multiple people. Mature people hold their special words dear and don’t give them to just anyone.

8. Be careful of someone who claims to be prayerful or wants a Godly family but is hesitant to pray.

9. Dates don’t have to be expensive, they don’t even have to cost any money. But they must be memorable.

10. Not every good looking person is meant to be your suitor, some are just meant to be a good looking friend.

11. There is a difference between someone who is good for you, and someone who is right for you.