Inner Thigh
Take your time to kiss and lick his inner thigh before going to touch his penis when performing oral. Tease him and experiment with your lips. You can go from light fluttering kisses to harder sucking.
Hair
While kissing, try running the tips of your fingers through his hair, over his scalp gently, then a bit harder with a tug. This playful tease with drive him legit cray.
The Prostate
Run a lubricated finger around his anus to begin. This stimulation by itself may be enough for him, but if he’s down for more, once the muscles have had a chance to relax, insert your index finger about two inches inside—where you should be able to feel his prostate.
Toes
During sexy foreplay, move your kisses teasingly down his body until you’re all the way down at his feet. Suck on your partner’s toes—or even lick the bottom of their foot arch.
Butt Cheek
If your boy is open to a little spank-y play, this is great to do while he’s on top of you in any variation of missionary. Squeeze his booty when he’s hitting just the right spot or give him a quick spank if you’re both into it.
Bottom Lips
Nibble the bottom lips and possibly even going for a harder bite (if they seem receptive to it).
The Seam of His Testicles
Cradle his balls in one hand while gently pressing the first two fingertips of your other hand into the top of the crease (close to where the testicles connect to the base of his penis). Then trace downward with your fingers until you reach the bottom of his scrotum. But don’t forget to be gentle!
His Earlobes
Kissing your partner across his shoulder, up his neck, and stopping right before you hit his ear. Do this to both sides, because asymmetry is for the lazy. When he’s right about to lose it, start kissing his earlobe, and use your tongue to bring his earlobe into your mouth. Play around with gentle nibbles, tongue, etc. Be careful not to touch any other part of his body while doing this, and see how wild he gets from you just touching his earlobes.
The Head of His Penis
Give him a lipstick blow job—aka where you brush your closed but relaxed lips against the head of his penis, like you’re applying lipstick. Hold his shaft with your fingers, but not in a fist (avoid holding his penis like a microphone but do approach it with the same blind confidence of a mediocre stand-up act).
The Front of His Neck
Give him a throat job—no, not like that, (you can re-hinge your jaw now.) Have him lie on his back and literally just suck his Adam’s apple. Keep your tongue flat and light, not too much pressure! Massage the area with wide circular motions to ensure you’re hitting that T-spot of the thyroid.
Those V-Lines
Have him lay on his back while you straddle him and give him what he really wants: a view of your scalp as you make your way down on him. Starting from his belly button, use your fingers and nails to trace a line down from his happy trail stopping before you hit total groin. Then retrace your steps but use your tongue to trace a V shape from his hips to right above his penis. Draw it out and really tease him until he can’t take it any longer.
His Nipples
Britton suggests having him lie on his back and slowly licking from his areola inward, like an ice-cream cone but never touching tongue to nip. Get closer and closer until you flick his nipple with your tongue and then gently bite it. If you wanna be really extra, you can suck on an ice cube beforehand for more sensation.
His Frenulum
Hold his penis steady with one hand while really giving his crown your all. Each time you circle your tongue around to his frenulum, flick it a few times with your tongue stiffened, and then relax and go back to licking the crown.
The original article first appeared in Cosmopolitan SA (written by by and