This is the unique thing that makes a man pursue a woman from the beginning. If a woman wants to keep on being pursued she should remain attractive, even years in marriage she should work on being exciting to chase after and explore.
A man cannot make any progress with a woman without the woman’s permission and consent. She should let him in her life, stop putting permanent walls between him and you, give him the green light.
A woman who knows what she wants is easy to love. Some women are all over the place; they love the man but then still stuck on the ex, listening to friends and getting confused, saying she wants to love then saying she is not sure, breaking up with him then wanting him back, saying no to him then getting mad when the man moves on, saying one thing but meaning something else. Lady, make up your mind.
Men will always be drawn to the woman who is exciting, the stress-free woman. Men don’t like working too hard to have fun, be the oasis he runs to not the nag he avoids.
A man wants a woman who doesn’t rush him or corner him. Don’t rush him to speed up proposing to you, that will only push him away; don’t write him off quickly on grounds that he is not where he wants to be in life yet, his breakthrough is on the way; don’t put pressure on him yet he is doing his best. Give him time and he will give you his world. Be the woman he grows with, growth is a process not an event, growth takes time.
A man needs a help mate not an escort clinging to him. He needs love and help too, he needs a partner; work with him. Don’t let him do everything, you two are a team.
Don’t insult him, don’t shame him, don’t ridicule him, and don’t boss him or order him around. Treat him like a dignified King if you want him to treat you like a royal Queen.
Emotional strength, ability to hold a deep conversation, a rational and intelligent woman who can challenge him and inspire him; be that.
Men have issues too, they can easily be taken for granted or be misunderstood. Study him, know why he is the way he is, search him out. You cannot love a person you don’t understand.
15. “Public cover”
Too many women gossip and discredit their men in public; too many women witness their family, friends or the public rubbish their men and do nothing; too many women entertain and participate in breaking their own relationship/marriage… don’t be one of them. Cover your man’s nakedness and weakness, defend your man’s honor.
Men generally have been attacked. All men tend to be considered as players or dogs, fathers rarely get celebrated in today’s society, fallen and irresponsible men have given men a bad name, it is easier to suspect and doubt a man than it is to believe him. A man asks that his woman believes him still, trust him.
A man wants a woman who will be a co-soldier in this army of two. He wants a woman who will stand by him through thick and thin, it is not only women who love being fought for.
Grace means that you forgive him because he is bound to fall short a couple of times, it means that you expect the best from him but give an allowance for he is human, it means that you don’t keep a record of wrongs. Many women tend to use the past wrongs of their men against their men. Let him see you and see God’s love.
Men love being elevated, don’t praise other men above him. Elevate him in private and in public, be his greatest ally, broadcast his greatness, speak life to him. Tell him ‘You can do it’ when he meets an obstacle, speak into his future even when he doesn’t match up to it – your love will make him get there. Adorn him with medals; not the way you will do to a child but the way it should be done to a man. Never treat him like a boy.
Always give him the truth, no lies.
Give him exclusive information about you, let him know you better than any other human being, update him what’s going on in your life, inform him where you are and with whom, be accountable to him and he will have no reason to be insecure.
Men are strong but gentle inside, men have fears and insecurities too. He wants to feel safe in your heart, safe in your arms; be his blanket, keep him warm, make him put down his shield.
7. “Self control’
When you are angry, learn to keep quiet; when your tempers flare up, learn to use the right words. Keep yourself from making irrational decisions or doing regrettable things in the heat of the moment. A reckless tongue can wreck a beautiful love.
6. “Great sex and physical touch”
Touch him good, know how to rub him, kiss him, seduce him and arouse him. Drive his sexual desire to great heights. Ride him, please him and explode him up in ways he can never get enough of. Keep your spouse coming back to you for pleasure, make him sweat, make that grown man sexually cry cause your sex is too good. When he thinks about sex, make sure he thinks about you.
Faithfulness is non-negotiable.
Keep your man’s secrets, even the good ones. Don’t disclose things to the public, keep it just between you two.
A man wants more than a sex bomb, he wants more than fun; he doesn’t want a girl to baby sit or a selfish woman who just keeps making demands. He wants a best friend in the woman he loves, a woman to age with and be real with.
Don’t hide from him or make him feel you avoid him, avail yourself to be with him, sometimes you be the one who asks to meet him or the one who makes plans for you two. He needs not just your time but your quality time.
Men want commitment too. He will ask you to be his, make you his wife because he also wants your assurance and your clarity. He needs to know, ‘Am I the one? Can I invest all I am and have on us? Are we in this fully till the end?’