Once I got my negativity filter working again, so much more started falling into place for me.
Because I was thinking about things more positively, I started to see myself in a more positive light too and this is when the magic started to happen.
You see, a woman who does not place a high value on herself will accept less than the best from most things in her life – including relationships.
When you start ‘taking stock’ of yourself, it’s like a whole new world
You realise and BELIEVE – belief is key – that you are an amazing person and deserve a good man. You won’t accept being treated even remotely badly. You will be OK with being on your own until the right, deserving man comes along. You will be at peace with whenever that happens.
You know what happens when all this is going on within you? All the hard, bitter vibes you were giving off go away. Your confidence soars. You’re strong – not desperate. And, most importantly, you are open and ready to meet a good man.
Oprah keeps a gratitude journal. I think it’s wonderful. You know what you need? A list of reasons why you are one super awesome human and why any man would be blessed beyond words to have someone like you in his life. Write it all down – yes, you might feel corny doing it, but it will help you.
Men can tell the difference between a woman who knows her worth and a woman who doesn’t have a clue. Always!
Sure, a rotten man will try his luck with a ‘worthy woman’, but he won’t stand a chance. She will be too strong. She will be too much work for someone like him. And, when I say ‘work’, I mean the normal stuff like honesty, respect etc – the things that just aren’t his thing.
When you are in a good space in your head/your life, it’s like there is a magnet within you that just keeps attracting more and more good. I’m not saying that the man of your dreams is going to magically appear in front of you, but if you keep yourself focused on the positives about yourself and your life – your inner light (your little lighthouse for love) will be burning so bright it can’t help but lead Mr. Right to you.
I know this to be true, because it happened to me!
Pack up your past. Accept it. Find the good. Focus on you. Happy times await!
Love this quote I saw (and stole) on Pinterest the other day…