Reasons Your Man Struggles to Talk to You

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1. “You complain more than you compliment”

It is difficult for a man to enjoy talking with a woman who has nothing good to say, a woman who is constantly saying “You can’t do anything right”, “You are late”, “You are difficult”. In as much as you want to let him know when he does wrong, learn to praise him and appreciate him more.

2. “You constantly make it about you”

This keeps him from enjoying conversations with you since you turn everything to be about you, what you want, what you can’t accept and what pleases only you.

3. “You whine a lot”

If you have a negative tendency of stating how life is unfair to you, how you are always the victim, everyone is always wrong and you are always right; that is a major turn off.

4. “You disclose his secrets”

When you tell your sisters, mom, friends about sensitive matters between you and him, he will keep things from you.

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5. “You jump into conclusions”

Your husband wants to share things with you, his finances, his time with his friends even when other women attempt to get him knowing well he is taken. But if you are quick to conclude he is cheating, dishonest or suspicious; he won’t bother.

6. “You respect the Pastor more”

Many wives elevate their Pastor above their husband. Whatever the Pastor says is right, the Pastor gets better treatment than the husband, the Pastor knows the secrets of the marriage and directs the marriage from outside. When your husband sees that to you your Pastor comes first, he will withdraw.

7. “You judge him”

If you are quick to label your man as lazy, weak, not man enough, immature, difficult instead of understanding him, he will quite down and choose not to be free, open and trusting with you. He will not feel safe to confide in you.

8. “Your tone and facial expression”

If your tone speaks of condemnation and disrespect, and your facial expression shows you are ready to go to war, he will feel unwelcome in your space and keep to himself.

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9. “You belittle him”

If you rarely appreciate his efforts, he will let you protect himself from you.

10. “You admire other men”

If you keep telling him why he can’t be like other men and praise other men above him, he will see no need to tell you stuff.

11. “You use his words against him”

A man will not give you the ammunition to bring him down. He will share as less with you as possible if you are a record keeper of his wrongs and dangerous with his weaknesses.

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Dayan Masinde

Dayan Masinde is a Nairobi based Kenyan artist specializing in Poetry, Fine Art, Portrait Art, Murals, Creative Writing, Music, Illustrations and Animation. He is often described as “The Artist Inspired by Love” because of his use of artistic expressions to inspire, celebrate and help understand the mystery of love. His poetry book “WHEN ANGELS MAKE LOVE” is available for purchase worldwide on amazon.

  • nanamariam

    God is so wonderful,,that today one congolese got such a big courage to tell the truth about this Hipolyte Kanambe a former taxi driver in Tanzania alias Joseph Kabila a big killer , criminal,in congo rdc , he has to face justice this time , he has been doing a lots killings in congo also he is the one who suporting the war in east of congo with his uncle kagame to finish killing congolese for our own homeland, kabila is not a congolese at all, he is a rwandais boy, we know that and all peoples in world nohe must to knows also the y are keeping a such a big bloodshed kabila in the power for our minerals ,riche land why,our land God gaves us even kanambe kabila was bornedin rwanda, so means he must leave our land go for justice , go back to his own country rwanda to live there with his uncle kagame ,so they would continue drinking rwandese blood as congolese blood become their apple juices we are tired about this hipolyte kanambe alias kabila. we are tired enough is enough. he killed some many congolese up to now , he has a private place to kill in kinshasa there called RNR ,,,,IS UNDERGROUND HE KILLS Mr Matungulu, Floribel Chebeya, some many there is a long liste here of peoples kanambe killed in congo rdc , on election 2011 somany congoleses disapper ,….trough in the lake, killed …ipolyte kanambe alias joseph kabila is a big killer in congo rdc ,detector, bloodshed, uneducated fake president in all world, taxi driver kanambe killed our previous president Desire KAbila , now he is still driking our bloods in every mornings, afternoons, evenings, day by days we are tired ,,,where is the justice , where is the humain right,where democracy in this world???? they are seeing like not why????? please we need justice for this carnibal hipolite kanambe alis josrphe kabila

  • nanamariam

    there is another witness also against kanambe ipolitte alis kabila who sow how he killed a congolese residente in belgium went for visit in rdc ,the way he saws congolese suffering and kabila killing them , that congolese belgium resident through the sand on kabila ‘s car by passing from ndili aeroport ,,,,that guy kabila killed him at the presence of a new witness here he knows very well must the story about the Chebeya, congolese belgium’s resident the one kabila killed in congo ………a special withness more here again ,,,kabila his a killer, bloodshed in congo rdc.

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