Reasons to fall in love with your best friend



The best relationships and marriages happen when the two people in it are best friends.

1. A best friend is loyal, so there will be no issues of unfaithfulness. No one betrays a true best friend no matter how tough things get, no matter what anyone else has to offer.

2. A best friend knows your good and bad and still loves you. You need to be loved for who you are while you still live on Earth.

3. A best friend will never bore you. In fact, you two will look forward to spending time together. There will be no need to beg for attention, or coming home late or avoiding you. You are so used to and dependent on each other’s company.

4. A best friend will have your back and look out for you. You are in safe hands.

5. A best friend will still value you when sex is not the agenda. He/she is not in it merely for sex but companionship.

6. A best friend will treat you as an equal. There will be no battle of the genders or issues of a man’s role versus a woman’s role. There will be mutual respect between man and woman.

7. A best friend will stay with you because he/she needs you and knows you need him/her.


8. A best friend will be comfortable to do silly things with you, laugh with you, be free with you, be a clown with you; no pretending. You need laughter in love.

9. A best friend will be honest with you, no sugar coating, no secrets. He or she will tell you the truth whether it’s hard to accept or not, he or she will confront you without beating around the bush. Honesty makes love real and makes it grow.

10. A best friend will make you the priority, no other human will come between you two. You will not need to run to another or feel you can open up to another better than you open up to your spouse.

11. A best friend will be more interested with the the function of friendship than the title of husband or wife. A title is easy to take away, but a true best friend bond is hard to destroy. He/she will hold on to you through the storms, the title is a matter of formality. Because he functions well as a bestfriend, he will make a great husband; because she functions well as a best friend; she will make a great wife.

12. A best friend ends up being the best spouse in bed. The sweetest love making happens when there is closeness outside the bed. A best friend will know everything about you, including your body, your heart beat, your mood, your eyes, your reasons.

13. A best friend is at the top of the hierarchy of all your friends. Your friends will surround and support you two. You will not need to worry about your friends stealing your spouse or interfering when you two are firmly placed at the top.

14. A best friend will make loving easy. No rules, no boundaries, no complications, no rigidness. This is the person who knows you better than anyone else, no walls between you two.

15. A best friend is hard to leave because no one knows you and understands you better, this is as good as it gets. If you both leave each other, where will you go when the best is when you two are best friends married to each other?


Dayan Masinde

Dayan Masinde is a Nairobi based Kenyan artist specializing in Poetry, Fine Art, Portrait Art, Murals, Creative Writing, Music, Illustrations and Animation. He is often described as "The Artist Inspired by Love" because of his use of artistic expressions to inspire, celebrate and help understand the mystery of love. His poetry book "WHEN ANGELS MAKE LOVE" is available for purchase worldwide on amazon.

  • malembe

    Ati Miraa is not a drug? what is it ….! A type of grass or what?

    • Homar

      Miraa is not a drug but rather a medicine that cures depression,obesity and impotency etc. Reason that’s being Ban by Dutch is Racism at it’s best. Prostitution, Bhang is all legal and used openly in cafes. Kenya Gov’t need to protect it’s farmers and No 1 Cash crop by lobbying and reversing this Ban otherwise kenya economy would be hurt.. Kenya gov’t also need to provide new evidence to org. such W.H.O to declassify this special cash crop.

      • Homar correction; No.1 cash crop in Kenya is Tea, this is something even a primary school student will tell you! What the UK or Dutch govt decide to ban in their countries is up to them same way Kenya wouldn’t want to be told what or what not to import.

        In my humble opinion, the only ppl benefiting from Miraa are the Meru farmers and Somali traders. Its high time Meru farmers thought out of the box and cultivated some meaningful crop and not this harmful substance which causes hallucination amongst other side effects.   

  • W. Mutua

    Miraa is  DRUG! Period.   How politicians can say anything just for mileage.  

    • Pratt

      Wants Meru vote after sacrificing their finest son!

  • Mkenya

    He want to do it after been elected!! I think what we need is report card this year. Come with what you’ve done, then we can promote you. Politicians has taken us for granted, talking big and when elected they completely forget.

  • Mberia

    Any stuff, subtance or chemicals that alters your central nervous system – altering sleep patterns can be referred as drugs. The areas that grow khat or miraa are suitable for other crops like tea. The most annoying thing about this issue is the fact that most of these farms ar leased to Somalis who are using the same cash to engage in other illegals activities such as smuggling weapons and support banned groups such as al shababs. So its the high time Khat is banned as a dangerous drug not fit for human consumption.

  • Tekie

    ukikula meirungi hua hata husimbikwi, sasa kama sio drugs ni nini tena hio mirungi

  • Anonymous

    He (Raila) is trying to fool people that he can influence the Dutch government to overturn the ban. The truth is he can’t. What leverage does Kenya have over Holland so as to make them reverse their domestic policies in our favour simply because we have asked them? Imagine the outrage there would be if Columbia lobbied our government to unban Cocaine (TBH thats even easier to envisage because our government is so corrupt it is capable of anything, but that’s besides the point). If anything, we need them more than they need us (ei, their flower market is particularly important to us) and they are the one who are in a position to influence our decisions. This is just bloody politics by a man who will tell lies to be elected.

  • Hawa

    I think the Ban is right because every country has its own interests.

  • They never banned it to punish miraa farmers but to protect the health of their people.Can RAO, stop your cunny threatrics

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