When we first date someone, we can’t keep our hands off them. All we want to do is take them home and spend all night in bed together. But what about when the infatuation stage is over? Can you still keep up the chase even though you’re both in a stable and comfortable relationship? How do you maintain each other’s desire for one another?

Relationships expert and author, Matthew Hussey, explains in this week’s episode of LOVELife, the psychology behind why so many couples get lazy and lose attraction over time, and show how you can avoid that by taking on a few key behaviours. According to Hussey, a lot of relationships become stale and couples stop challenging each other. One of the best ways to mitigate the laziness is to continue to grow as an individual through hobbies, passions, ambition etc.

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