When a man loves his family…


1. He loves his wife dearly. She is the only partner he has in raising his family.

2. He works hard. He is a provider.

3. He plays his role in choosing the right contraceptives. Family planning should not be left to the wife alone.


4. He tries to come home early to be with his family. His family is priority. To know what a man values, check what consumes his time.

5. He establishes a vision for his family together with his wife. His family never suffers a leadership crisis.

6. He treats his wife well, he never beats her, abuse her, cheat on her or destroy her. If his wife is hurting, the family hurts.

7. He is available and within reach to his children. His fatherly presence at home is felt.

8. Together with his wife, he saves up for the future of his family. The two make sound investments, the family is financially healthy.

9. He works out, eats right, avoids drugs and toxins in his body because he wants to live healthy and long for his family. His family needs him healthy.

10. He makes time to eat with his family at the dinner table. Dad has to be there.

11. He establishes and models family values. The children grow up to be adults who say “My dad taught me to be hardworking, to be of integrity and giving”.

12. He is involved in the children’s life and progress. He goes for the parent’s day, sports day, pays attention to the children’s academics and talents.

13. He prays for his family. He knows he needs God to be the best dad and to raise his children the right way. As for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.

14. He protects his family from slander, interference, affairs, attacks and destruction. You don’t mess with his family.

15. He keeps a good reputation. His family carries his name and his family should never be put to shame.

16. He challenges, stretches and mentors his children to prepare them for adult life.

17. If he starts a family business, he prepares his children to be a part of it.

18. He chooses his friends well. Many men have destroyed their family because of the wrong company they keep.


19. Together with his wife, he strives to give his family security. Security of a home, good education, good neighborhood and living standards

20. He leaves behind a legacy his children will be proud of.

21. His wife ages gracefully, she couldn’t ask for a better life partner. He is the best choice for a husband.


Dayan Masinde

Dayan Masinde is a Nairobi based Kenyan artist specializing in Poetry, Fine Art, Portrait Art, Murals, Creative Writing, Music, Illustrations and Animation. He is often described as "The Artist Inspired by Love" because of his use of artistic expressions to inspire, celebrate and help understand the mystery of love. His poetry book "WHEN ANGELS MAKE LOVE" is available for purchase worldwide on amazon.

  • Why is he always joining parties…Let him form his own and grow it..This naked ambition for raw power wont take anyone anywhere..At this elleventh hour….it is an uphill task. The guy should just swallow his pride..stop being a spoilt child and just talk to kenyans. It is not just being on ballot paper…He needs another ten years to mature up and lead a state

    • Zephania Ruto

      By saying “talk to Kenyans”, do you by any means mean ODM?. This tabia of everybody using the word “Kenyans” as a blanket for every selfish agenda should stop.

    • Kensudlogfistic

      it is only   take a fool of dondi calibre need ten years to build aparty he simply forgot that odm was build in a month by ruto and balalain 20007 nov.it now the same man has build his own party and you want others to believe you just because he has abandant you and your death odm wait and see

  • Oludavin

    Hahah, if Ruto is a woman enopugh, whatever party he joins, RAOI will still strip him and F***k him there.

    • Aptbks

      Dont be stupid. You talk like a headless maggot

  • Likhalakhala

    A cow that is found in every market for sale is not a good cow. There must be a reason why it is being rejected in every market.

  • Nicholas Ronnoh

    I like the line-up of the new party leaders. Not a single head with reform credentials. Its a leadership of the past. THIS IS NEW KENYA . If you are in that high table , you are not the future, and thats not balala talking.

  • Ogutajefferson

    Ruto is unable to keep friends.Will he keep  his promises?


  • ruto hana msimamo lets stop partisan politic kuingia basi ile imejaa tu

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