We all want our partner to be faithful to us. But do we make our partner enjoy or struggle being faithful? Here are tips to make your partner easily enjoy being faithful to you.
1. “Appreciate and compliment each other”
Never should another person compliment and talk well of your partner better than you. Be your partner’s biggest fan.
2. “Set boundaries”
Agree on what is permissible and what isn’t. For example: How to treat friends, can you meet someone of the opposite sex in private? What is good Facebook behavior? Do you agree to always inform each other where one is going and what time? Make things clear. Clarity prevents misinterpretations that might lead to misplaced suspicions.
3. “Keep no secrets”
Secrets only push two people in love apart. When your partner feels that with you things are open and transparent, you two will grow close.
Flirt and arouse each other. Tease each other whether on phone or face to face. Play games, pillow fight, joke around. Your partner should do all these easily with you and it should be exclusive. If your partner can’t be naughty with you, who will he/she be naughty with?
5. “Be emotionally available”
Too many people are in a relationship/marriage yet feel alone and misunderstood. This feeling has led many to look outside for someone else to meet their emotional needs. You are the person your partner should lean on. Be there for him/her, never create a vacuum.
6. “Kiss a lot”
Kissing breeds intimacy. Once intimacy is deep and intact, faithfulness is richer.
Pray with your partner and pray for your love. Faithfulness is an attribute of God, the more you two turn to God, the more faithful you two will be. Prayer also protects your love from any plans designed to steal, kill or destroy your love.
8. “Talk about sex”
Don’t hold back, don’t be rigid. Be the person your partner opens up to about sex and sexual fantasies. No one should take your place as the custodian of your partner’s sexual thoughts and questions. Be your partner’s diary.
9. “Have a support system”
Introduce each other to family and friends. When you are surrounded by people who are supporters of your love, accountability is heightened and faithfulness is fostered.
10. “Spend a lot of time together”
If you are missing in action in your partner’s life, then you are making things difficult for your love. Be accessible.
11. “Be an oasis of peace and fun”
If being with you is stressful and a never ending fight. If all you do is tell your partner about bills, how tough life is, the many ways he/she fails, highlighting mistakes and ever complaining; your partner will find it difficult to be with you and easier to find peace elsewhere. Don’t make him/her struggle.
12. “Disclose when someone tries to woo you”
If an ex or an outsider tries to woo any of you, let each other know so that you laugh about it, tell off that person and avoid that person.
13. “Go on dates”
Spice up your love. Constantly ignite the flame. Break the monotony and go have a good time together.
14. “Hug and cuddle a lot”
Do the things that lovers should do. Your partner shouldn’t feel he/she is missing out on human affection yet you are there.
15. “Satisfy each other sexually”
Take your spouse to sexual highs. Drive your spouse sexually crazy. Blow him/her away. Feed his/her sexual appetite. This is your marital role, never forfeit it.
16. “Keep the bedroom the home of his/her heart”
Maintain the bedroom as a hideaway, a place of love and accommodation. When your partner is at home in bed, your partner is at peace.
17. “Publicly show love”
When you publicly show that you are taken, you make it easier for your partner to turn away any admirers or love destroyers.
18. “Celebrate Anniversaries and special days”
This makes your partner proud of the love you share. Whatever you are proud of you are loyal and faithful to.
19. “Sexually appeal”
Give your partner “eyegasms”. Take care of your body, dress sexy so that your partner will not only focus on you, but enjoy focusing on you.
20. “Be best friends”
Be more than romantic with each other, be best friends. When your partner is your best friend, no one can come between you two.