The top 3 things men find attractive in women

A woman who knows exactly what she wants and goes for it is such a turn on for that mature hunky man with a like personality. Read on to learn the 3 things men find attractive to women…



#1 Women who have a high perception of themselves

Without self love you have no ability to attract the kind of relationship that you desire. You see, men are turned off by women who have a low opinion of themselves and are turned ON by women who have a high perception of themselves.

If you are struggling with how you see yourself, then understand that he sees you as you see you because he picks up on your vibes. So change this if you don’t think the vibes you are giving out are great.

#2 Women who are attractive to themselves

Really. You need to start attracting YOU. Spend time doing things that you LOVE and you will soon feel amazing in yourself. And when you do you will find that the guy most suited to this you comes your way. You have to work on yourself like this whether you are out looking for love or already have love because when you become disconnected from your true self you also become disconnected from a healthy and happy relationship.

#3 Women who appreciate a man’s need for space too

Men need more space than women do but women tend to think that to show a man that they love him they need to spend all of their time with him and give up their own identity but this can drive a man crazy as it means giving up his life to make his woman happy. Give him space too and use the time for you both to connect to your inner selves then come together and share your news.




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  1. Avatar 254 August 16th, 2013 at 2:11 pm

    Well Done Esme

  2. Avatar kimanthi August 16th, 2013 at 3:38 pm

    Entrepreneurship in its element. This is the route SME’s need take in order to create employment and compete with multinationals.

  3. Avatar Ngoma August 16th, 2013 at 3:57 pm


  4. Avatar Kendi August 16th, 2013 at 4:25 pm

    Well done Es meralda. Keep up the good work. I am the geologist.

    1. Avatar Namboka Belinda Makadia August 16th, 2013 at 7:44 pm

      remember her in !st year?

      1. Avatar Esmeralda August 16th, 2013 at 10:06 pm

        Hello Kendi and Belinda!
        It is lovely to hear from you both! Belinda I am NOT a millionaire…YET 🙂
        If I was mining at Ngamia perhaps I would be! 🙂

  5. Avatar Mario Fernandes August 16th, 2013 at 4:36 pm

    Wonderful news…..Have you got Goan roots….i am happy for you ..i was born in Lare/Meru now in Goa.

    1. Avatar Esmeralda August 16th, 2013 at 10:01 pm

      Hello Mario! My father is a Goenkar and my grandfather was from Zuar St Jacinto Island.
      Deum Borem Korum. 🙂

  6. Avatar Namboka Belinda Makadia August 16th, 2013 at 7:44 pm

    Esmeralda you disappeared on us and became a millionnaire!! That is good news girl. So proud of you.

  7. Avatar joel ndungu August 17th, 2013 at 8:51 am

    I went to the same college with spencer foundaumire same year infact am happy for you guys you are doing a marvelous job,back then he used to play for nondescript..God Bless your hard work Esmeralda De Souza!

  8. Avatar Mitchelle DE Paola August 17th, 2013 at 10:55 am

    Thank you Esme i am encouraged from where you begun and am gonna do the same to come up with my own opportunity to be a self earning and help other communitie to come up with their own.
    I had given up but now your word will keep me strong.

    Go for it GIRL

  9. Avatar pam August 22nd, 2013 at 11:06 am

    Congratulations and well done to you. The sky is he limit! Pam

  10. Avatar J. Ogutu August 27th, 2013 at 1:25 am

    Well Done! Good to see you after all that time you have really grown since your days at Allen Grove

  11. Avatar Dvyne Entertainment August 27th, 2013 at 12:32 pm

    Congratulations and well done to you and your team!


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