11 Things a man only does if he is serious about you

“I love you, I need you oh baby, oh baby”… If a man tells you that on your first encounter don’t think twice, run for the hills! He probably just wants to hit that and then bolt! There are those things a guy who wants to casually sleep with you will say and do. And then there are those things a guy who wants to be with you for the long haul will do. Below  are those things.


1– He will talk to you about his future plans-career, relationship etc- openly and will often keep you in the loop.

2- He will have long meaningful conversations with you on the phone as you get to know each other.


3- He will enjoy your company and therefore will always plan ahead with you so that you both create time to give each other your undivided attention.

4-He always returns your calls and texts and will always clarify a missed call.

5- He will check with you often and ask to be kept in the loop with things that you’ve mentioned matter to you.


6- He will offer to help you with things like moving house, garage issues and car problems because he understands cars much better.

7-He will remember most of things you’ve talked about.

8-He will find random reasons to call you like “I just wanted to hear your voice today”

9-He will be sensitive to your feelings and will show you that he respects you. You will never find him checking out your friends and will never ask you to hook your friends up with his friends.

10-He will be interested in your future and your career.

Couple enjoying dinner

11-He will be proud to be seen with you in public and will even hold your hand when walking together.






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  1. Avatar kaerobe July 12th, 2013 at 12:35 pm

    who wrote this rubbish? highly sexist and pure filler. No science or social psychology behind it.

    1. Avatar Ty July 12th, 2013 at 12:55 pm

      Thumbs up!

    2. Avatar Sarah Wangu December 2nd, 2013 at 8:43 am

      Congratulations dear, keep up with the attitude, people who use abusive hateful language normally reduce themselves to acting and being primitive equivalent to animals so I dont blame you, monkeys are our cousins, right!

  2. Avatar MegaMind July 12th, 2013 at 12:51 pm

    I have actually done all these to my Gal without any form of considerations, they were all naturally occurring, except that I have not married her. But the problem with ladies, even if you do all these, and more, they still don’t see, they still don’t trust you, they still don’t believe you! Ladies…. are ladies!

    1. Avatar Sarah Wangu July 12th, 2013 at 2:01 pm

      well, as per my experience, a woman/man can only be able to love you back if they appreciate you….. its simply put they have to learn to find a higher % in your positives than in -ves, they have also to be willing to work with you, on the other hand if some1 does not love someone even if you please her/him, they wont see anything they will only identify with -ves….

    2. Avatar June Joyce Paloma November 30th, 2013 at 8:20 pm

      try me,i wont dissapoint you

      1. Avatar MegaMind December 30th, 2013 at 3:48 pm

        @June, I am just sceptical about ladies. is there any who is different?

  3. Avatar TheBartender July 16th, 2013 at 2:17 pm

    Mega Mind…. Trust is earned not BOUGHT.


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