“If you loved me, you’d let yourself get high or drunk”
If your man “meets the chief” every once in a while yet you’ve never inhaled anything into your lungs and you never planned to, don’t start now. I won’t go so far as to tell women that they shouldn’t date a man with a recreational drug habit but if he’s a weed head, let him be a weed head by himself. If alcohol is his “thing” but you can’t stand the taste of beer, wine, liquor or any other form of alcoholic beverage, don’t let him talk you into drinking or getting drunk – even just for fun. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard men say, “Awww, come one, just one drink won’t hurt you.” But all alcoholics started off with “one drink” which led to another and another and another. Again, I’m not here to preach about drugs or alcohol – but take heed if your man over indulges in either. All I’m saying is, if you don’t drink or do drugs, and never had an interest in doing so, then don’t start now…and certainly not because your boyfriend asks you to. If he loved you, he’d respect and admire your decision. Just say no!