When you’re in love per se, there is nothing you wouldn’t do for your partner. Although love should be unconditional, sometimes, women and even men, find themselves in a situation where they may feel the need to prove their love to their partner – even if it means compromising their morals and beliefs to show them what an understanding and loving catch you are.
“If you loved me, you’d…”
Sound familiar? No sentence should ever begin with such a phrase, and if it does, start running. Your love and devotion should simply be enough. Couples who share true love will never have to prove anything to each other, answer or reason to anything. Trust is all that’s needed.
Such a sentence only works if you have insecurities of your relationships, and therefore will be easily manipulated to believe that you need to prove your love. Showing your love should never be shameful, illegal, humiliating or anything that compromises you.
Here are 3 things you should never do simply because they say they love you…
“If you loved me, you’d let me not use a condom”
If your man tries to convince you not to use a condom, prior to any health checkups etc., head to the door and never look back. He is not only showing you that he doesn’t value your sexual health, he doesn’t value his own either. Men who refuse to wear condoms because he doesn’t like the way they feel, says he can’t feel you or because he claims to only be having sex with you are simply reckless and irresponsible. No matter what stage you’re in in your relationship, not using a condom should be a mutual decision based on trust and love and at least two visits to the clinic to make sure you both are STD free.