5. Do not become hateful
Finding excuses to try and see your ex is already lame! Move on with your life already. But you will stoop to a new low when you start picking fights with your ex and perhaps even the new person in their life. You are constantly in their face and in their life, calling them, abusing them and just focusing on making their life unbearable! You become so hateful such that you start spreading malicious lies about them not knowing that this will not help your situation. You are just wasting your time and your energy being hateful.