Help! I’m in love with a married man

A dear Capital Lifestyle Magazine reader is in a fix and has shared her story. She seeks your advice. Remember, the views expressed are solely the opinion of the reader, and not Capital FM’s.


I just realized that I’m the biggest “water preacher” and the biggest “wine drinker” too. I used to frown upon any woman who had a love affair with a married man and now I am that woman! Yes, feel free to throw stones my way.

I met this amazing guy through mutual friends at some random getaway once upon a fabulous weekend. And when we got talking it was like we had known each other all our lives. We had so much in common and everything flowed great-the conversation, the jokes, the love for strange habits like having pancakes for dinner-but that was until I saw the bling on his finger. “Bummer!!! “ I remember thinking to myself, why are the good ones always taken?” In my head I was like I will try to forget that I saw that ring especially on that particular finger but the fact remains that it was there, and is still there whether I choose to see it or not!

What I love about this man (yes I said love) is the fact that he doesn’t try to make excuses about him being married or that he married the wrong woman and not once has he ever mentioned his wife or kids in a conversation. Which is what actually drives me towards him some more.

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