Is it wrong that I want her to watch porn too?

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Indulging in porn may be part of your routine, and perhaps not a regular segment in your girlfriend’s daily schedule.  Most women rarely watch it, but of course there are those that enjoy a few snippets of pornography from time-to-time just to keep things interesting, and most likely, to keep you, the boyfriend, happy.

 

I get it.  A woman’s desire is provoked more by emotional and mental aspects.  Porn is too contrived for most women to get aroused from because most scenes feature people that don’t even seem to like each other.  The physicality of porn may be enough for you, but your girlfriend will respond better to genuine scenarios.

 

Truthfully speaking, I have personally been trying to encourage my girlfriend of 3 years to watch porn with me.  It was fun the first few films we watched together, but now, she complains that when I watch porn, she feels like I’m cheating on her – what madness is that?

 

I can’t help it if my sex drive is higher than hers.  I don’t want to put pressure on her either.

 

My girlfriend gets disappointed that porn turns me on.  She often asks me if she were to change her body image more like that chick in the porn flick, would I appreciate her more.  She tells me subconsciously she feels pressure to “perform” like a porn star, and to be as sexually talented as one.

 

I get it, not everybody likes to watch porn, and no matter what you do, you can’t make them.  I just wanted my girlfriend to watch porn with me so that it could liven things up in our bedroom, and also so we could enjoy something together – sure beats watching fluffy romantic comedies that are just as unrealistic and contrived.

 

Is it really that wrong that I want her to watch porn too?

 

AUTHOR: Anonymous Capital Lifestyle Reader

 

 

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  • nzosh

    It is wrong for you, leave alone her. If you are turned on by porn – another woman’s image – and not her, as you are insunuating, it means you are having sex with the mental image of the porn woman, and not her. That’s why she feels hurt because you are actually cheating on her. Sex is more than physical. It involves your soul; that’s why you are able to store an image in your mind and have sex with it. In essence what you are adoing is, in your soulish mind you are stimulated by the image but then you use her body to gratify yourself. It’s wrong for you and for her. It can never truly satisfy you or her. She will always feel cheated.

    My advice to you is, find true freedom in Jesus Christ by being saved.
    Nzosh

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