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6 Reasons Why The 5-Date Rule Is Is Stopping From Having A Relationship

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Ladies, the 5 -date rule is a situation whereby the lady will decide to practice going on 5 dates before sleeping with the guy. Sex is often a big deal for most women.However, in this age of millennials, abstaining has become less common as opposed to our parent’s days where abstaining was the norm, which shifts the approach to dating and sex.

Does waiting for 5 dates really make a guy stay?

Here are 6 reaseons why the 5-date rule is all but a fad that has been shared in the hopes women would buy into it:

1.If a guy wanted to taste the cookie and leave thereafter he will do just that.

Going on 50 dates will not make him like you more, why? Well men are naturally wired to conquer what they want and if it is his goal to conquer you, so he can brag to his friends, that he “conquered you” he will do just that.

2.If a guy is deeply in love with a lady, getting the cookie will be a plus.

Trust me some guys just want to get to know you as a lady, not only see the beauty but gauge what kind of personality you have. Some of you ladies might be asking where these guys are. Well, they are there if you look carefully and long enough. But that being said, try not to settle for a swoony and clingy guy who will move the heavens and the earth for you at the expense of his life, that act is cute for a short time, but you do not want a boring one-sided relationship.

3.Guys already know about this myth.

Guys will often discuss ladies amongst themselves. Of course, men not only  discuss football in depth, their sexual persuits are also a major talking point.

 

4.When a guy approaches you, he might be looking for a side fling.

This means that there might be someone else in the picture, now, when I say someone else in the picture, I am not just referring to another lady, could be, that he has fears about dating women, because of past relationships. Guys are just as sensitive as are women, the only difference is that women will often show their emotional side but guys will hardly ever show it as a result of societal norms and culture.

5.Five dates are not long enough to get to know a person.

Why are you as a lady waiting for 5 dates? Are you trying to gauge whether he will fall for your body type? Or are you assessing his interest levels in you or how many times in between the dates he texts you? Let’s face the truth, dates are pretentious, therefore gauging whether a guy likes you from a date, is a misguided notion, for all we know, the guy could be putting on an act to impress you as the lady.

6.You may wait and still be incompatible.

Yes, I said it, the conversation in between the dates was enjoyable, you even pictured yourself with the guy, getting married, starting a life with him but then you get to the fifth date and it goes south. Hard to fathom? Well, if this happens, you must pick up the pieces and move on.

 

 

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