Facebook lets friends help unlock accounts

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Facebook on Thursday began letting people locked out of their profiles get back in with the help of “friends.”

A new Trusted Contacts account recovery feature lets Facebook users set up lists of friends who can provide codes to unlock accounts.

“With trusted contacts, there’s no need to worry about remembering the answer to your security question or filling out long web forms to prove who you are,” Facebook said in a security blog post.

“You can recover your account with help from your friends.”

People can manage lists of trusted contacts using Facebook security settings. Members of the social network locked out of their accounts will need security codes from three friends to get back in, according to Facebook.

“Once you’ve set up your trusted contacts, if you ever have trouble logging in, you’ll have your trusted contacts as an option to help,” Facebook said.

“You just need to call your trusted contacts and let them know you need their help to regain access to your account.”

Justin Timberlake sorry for ‘silly’ wedding video

Actor-singer Justin Timberlake has apologized for a “distasteful” video produced by a friend as a joke that critics blasted for making fun of homeless people.

 

The heartthrob actor posted an open letter on his website about the video, in which a string of homeless, transgender and other people wished him best wishes for his wedding to actress Jessica Biel, in southern Italy.

 

“I had no knowledge of its existence. I had absolutely ZERO contribution to it,” he said of the video, whose makers according to the TMZ celebrity news website include his friend Justin Huchel.

 

“I think we can all agree that it was distasteful, even though that was not its intention,” he said.

 

The video, initially posted on the Gawker website, has a series of Los Angeles vagrants, street musicians and others talk to camera, sending wishes to Timberlake and Biel for their recent Italian nuptials.

 

“Greetings from your Hollywood friends who just couldn’t make it,” says a caption at one point, followed by “Love Huch and Rachel.”

 

Timberlake wrote: “I don’t live my life making fun of people (unless, of course, I’m making fun of myself on [TV comedy show Saturday Night Live] … Especially, those who are less fortunate or those in need.

 

“My friends are good people. This was clearly a lapse in judgment which I’m sure no one who is reading this is exempt from. But, I don’t believe it was made to be insensitive.

 

He added: “On behalf of my friends, family, and associative knuckleheads, I am deeply sorry to anyone who was offended by the video.”

 

Timberlake, 31 — whose movie credits include 2010′s “The Social Network” and 2011′s “Friends with Benefits” — and 30-year-old Biel dated for five years before their wedding this month.

 

At the end of his open letter, Timberlake said: “Thank you for giving me the opportunity to share my thoughts. It really is a blessing to be able to speak directly to my true fans.”

 

He concluded by vowing to get his friend to “do at least 100 hours of community service.”

What type of friend are you?

Friends are important in your life and if you don’t have friends then you are not normal. This can be proven “scientifically” when it comes to Society studies and human behavior where it is verified that friends in general play a huge role in ones socialization process.

Hmm…so what got me thinking about this topic?

One very late Sunday evening (I’m talking 11pm-ish) I was chilling somewhere in town with my cousin waiting for a mutual friend of ours to come and relieve me of my “keeping-the cousin-company duty.”
My cousin had plenty of time to spare since he was on vacation and I had to go home, finish up on some work then sleep and wake up bright and early ready for work the next day which was crazy Monday.
He needed company but I was too tired, so he promised to release me once he got someone to replace me and I suggested a mutual friend of ours who we called and confirmed he’d show up.
It was late for a Sunday but I knew our friend would come. He is a responsible guy and someone whose words you can always count on.
He did take forever, and I mean forever (considering I was so sleepy and had to drive home and finish up on some important work) but he came through all the same. Turns out he had so much to do (like save the world or something)

And that is what got me thinking about friendships, promises and the kind of friend I am.

When it comes to friends, there is…

-That friend who is genuinely your friend and will be there for you through thick and thin. That friend who will always care about your well-being. That one who will be your friend when you are jobless and will be extremely happy for you when you get that super job that even sees them earn more than you do. The one that won’t be bothered by negativity and only concentrates on things that will do more good than harm and those that will build you both. And this type of  friend ladies and gentlemen, is a true friend and sadly a very rare creature.

Then there is…

-That friend who will only be there when things are going all rosy. When there’s something in it for him/her. And when things get thick for you they will be there to make sure that you are actually going down and give you fake sympathy as they laugh out loud behind your back. This friend will show up just because they didn’t have other plans and is likely to disappoint you when you need them the most. You are at the bottom of their priority list. They may even sabotage you so that you go down and they are left feeling good about themselves.

…and finally…

-That friend who is never there for you. The type that will even swear that they will come for your event and even be the first ones to RSVP and then don’t show up. They even tell you they are on the way coming but never show up. They don’t call to explain why they couldn’t make it, or why the sudden change of plans and will even switch off their phone and give you some lame story the next day. They are never there for you period! but when they need you they will look for you everywhere possible. This lot just don’t care for you and wouldn’t be bothered with you and yours.

I recently found out that one of my very good friends is epileptic. I have known her for quite some time and during that whole time I never even suspected that she suffered from epilepsy. She explained that there’s a lot of stigma that epilepsy sufferers are faced with.  That she is always afraid of people’s reactions when they find out. I was mad at her for a minute for not telling me but then I tried to put myself in her shoes and I couldn’t help but appreciate her some more. She is not epilepsy, she is my friend, and I forced myself to understand where she is coming from. With friends disappearing one by one whenever she suffers an attack in their presence. And I know its not easy, especially knowing that she didn’t bring it on herself. She says that what she has gone through all her life, the stigma she has faced because of being epileptic…she wouldn’t wish on even her worst of enemies.

While calling someone a friend, do you take the time to try and put yourself in their shoes and look at them as they do you? Would you drop everything you are doing to go and help a friend in need? Would you like the same done for you? Do you even have someone you can call on when you need a shoulder to cry on? Think about it! And think hard before you call someone your friend.

Just remember that besides family, friends really matter and they do play a huge role in our lives so choose the right ones…. So what kind of friend are you?

 

BBA contestants asked to bring a plus one!


Big Brother Africa might as well open a school for this! The seventh edition of the contest this year will be challenging from the very beginning.

If you think you are interesting, fun-loving, creative, original and socially flexible enough to be a Kenyan contestant this year, good for you! But you will have to look for someone else just as exciting and as fun, and as controversial (?) to go in WITH you. Yes! Two scoops of ice-cream please!

Be it your father, brother, mother, spouse, hairdresser, or child (maybe), entrants to BBA will have to enter as a pair this year. Is that a recipe for double trouble or a new way of forming alliances? Will contestants finally have someone to truly watch their back?

Biggie is advising that it be somebody you don’t mind spending a LOT of time with – just in case you win.

Two countries have been added into the wide African reality show selection this glorious 2012, namely Liberia (hot chicks) and Sierra Leone (French?).

The cash prize is also eye-popping, at a cool Sh25.5 million.

M-Net Africa Managing Director Biola Alabi says, “We are thrilled to be offering a huge, new, USD 300 000 prize and to include two new countries who were chosen to participate based on their ongoing interest in the series and their growing DStv audiences. And while Ethiopia won’t have a housemate this year, we’ll look to include them and other non-housemate countries in other ways if the opportunity arises, as we do every season… And as for Mozambique, they will be included with a housemate – but that’s all we are saying at the moment!”

Below are the qualifications: – he/she must:

- be a citizen of Angola, Botswana, Ghana, Kenya, Liberia, Malawi, Namibia, Nigeria, Sierra Leone, South Africa, Tanzania, Uganda, Zambia and Zimbabwe.
- be 21 years or older.
- be fluent in English.
- have a valid passport!

Entry forms will be made available on www.mnetafrica.com/bigbrother from February 5 and they must be either dropped at the nearest MultiChoice office or sent to bba@endemol.co.za.

The entry deadline is February 27.

Friends: Does Facebook alter the brain?


Does Facebook alter the brain? That’s the question which flows from an unusual investigation into the online social network used by 800 million people.

Volunteers placed in a 3-D scanner had bigger, denser structures in three areas of the brain if they had a big list of Facebook friends compared to counterparts who had few online friends, scientists found.

The three locations are all linked with the power to socialise.

The superior temporal sulcus and middle temporal gyrus, “are associated with social perception such as perceiving other people’s gaze or social cues from facial expressions”, said University College London researcher Ryota Kanai.

The third area, the entorhinal complex, “might be associated with memory for faces and names”, he said.

Two years ago, Oxford University neuroscientist Susan Greenfield unleashed a storm about online networking and its impact on the young.

“The mid-21st century mind might almost be infantilised, characterised by short attention spans, sensationalism, inability to empathise and a shaky sense of identity,” Greenfield warned in a speech to Britain’s House of Lords.

Lead investigator Geraint Rees, a UCL professor of neuroscience, said the new study opened up key questions touching on this controversy.

Among them: whether the size of the socialising area of the brain leads one to create more friends — and whether this area is changed by online social networks… or not at all. Only further work would resolve this cause-or-effect riddle, he said.

The study appears on Wednesday in the journal Proceedings of the Royal Society B, published by Britain’s de-facto academy of sciences.

Rees’s team enrolled 125 students, 46 of them men, whose average age was 23.

Their Facebook friends varied in number from just several to nearly 1,000. Averaged out, this meant around 300 friends per volunteer.

These results were then checked, to monitor for any bias, in a separate sample of 40 volunteers.

In a third experiment, the scientists looked more closely at a sub-sample of 65 of volunteers to see whether there was a link between the online world and real world in brain structure.

In addition to undergoing brain scan, this group also filled out a questionnaire about their friends in the real world.

Matching the tally of real-world friendships with that of online friendships, the scientists found only one correlation in brain matter.

This was in an area called the bilateral amygdala, which is believed to process and store memories of emotional events.

There was no such association in the three brain areas — the superior temporal sulcus, middle temporal gyrus or entorhinal complex — that had been highlighted in the first experiment.

Rees said this was curious. It could mean that different areas of the brain are used for different forms of socialising.

Previous research has established that the brain is a flexible organ.