3. “Gosh! When are you going to finish?”

This just makes him feel like you are just there, not enjoying and like you will take off or fall asleep the moment he is done.This is supposed to be an intimate moment enjoyed by both of you and not just him.

What the guys would prefer is:

That you suck it in like a sponge and enjoy until the ‘did is done being did’ but If you feel you can’t take it anymore, how about make it sexy and not ego bruising. Tell him something like “baby, I really want you to climax”. That will be his cue to finish up.

4. “Your phone is vibrating I think you should answer it”

Really? Even if your mind is not there at least feign some interest in the do and not in other things like phones ringing and random, imaginary people knocking on the door. It is such a buzz kill. And you also make him feel like he’s not bringing his A-game, so you’re bored stiff such that you would look for all sorts of excuses so that he stops.

What the guys would prefer is: To mind your business at hand and leave the darn vibrating phone alone!

5. “Honey I think we need to talk”

Can’t she pick any other time to bring up such things as talking? That’s just being plain insensitive.

What the guys would prefer is: That you just don’t say such random things in bed. EVER!!

Remember ladies, sex is supposed to make you closer with your partner and should be enjoyed by both of you. No one should ever have to feel like it’s a task that has to be done and finished in record time. When you tell your man any of the above, you just make him feel like you can’t wait to be over and done with already all the time. So, next time do consider his feelings and put yourself in his shoes. Help him get the hint without bruising his ego. And men, sometimes you get this because you force issues. Make sure the Ms. is also in the mood or at least help her get there first. It is just that simple.