Kenyan men for dummies

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Some of you might be familiar with the song no romance without Finance? So just how true is this fact, and are men threatened when the women in their lives earn more than they do?

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Managingboss_519997756.jpgThe other day I was talking to a pal of mine, who is already predicting doom in his relationship, just because his girlfriend got a new better paying job than he does and by far! To tell you the truth, I did not see what the big deal was, until I asked more of my friends. According to them, women are hotwired to ask for money no matter what.
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rn They do not get enough and they are never satisfied regardless of how much money they earn, and that they have no mercy on dudes with no money to throw around. The degree of truth in this, is up for debate but honestly who would mind having money to spend on whatever they want whenever they feel like? More money for a chick spells more shoes, more clothes, more bags and more bling. It doesn’t make it easy when there are people out there willing to spend this kind of money without giving it a second thought.  
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rn It goes without saying therefore that unless a man is well grounded, he will be insecure if he does not have the ability to cater for at least some if not all of these expenses, and will try as hard as he can no matter what it takes, to be in a position to, or else look for “a low maintenance woman”. woman_on_phone_956227996.jpg
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rn For those of you who still don’t know why it matters at all who earns what, you clearly do not know just what kind of man you are dealing with, and need a guide to the Kenyan man. Ladies please read and internalise these few facts as they will help you avoid unnecessary waste of valuable resources like your voice and time.
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rn 1.    Pride is their SI unit; you cannot separate the man from his ego.
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rn 2.    Communication is not in their vocabulary. That is why 5 minutes into any conversation you might as well be talking to yourself as he has already zoned off. Communication is their Kryptonite. Is there a man out there who really has a positive attitude to openings like…let’s talk about it? Or we need to talk? Immediately you utter these words, you might as well have sent him running out the door. So in a nutshell avoid this zone, unless you’re in sexy lingerie and have food in your hand.
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rn 3.    A Kenyan Man will never admit to being broke unless you hold a gun to his head then maybe just maybe if he’s scared enough, will he admit to this fact. Were it not for civilization and the fact that nowadays some women feel liberated enough to go Dutch; hoteliers would have quite a number of volunteers in their kitchens.
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rn 4.    They will never come to terms with the fact that their girlfriends or significant others earn more than they do.  Should they at any one point feel inadequate they will feel under pressure to match and eventually outdo them. If all else fails, they will sabotage this relationship and bring it to a sudden death. So keep a tight lid on your earnings, if you want him around for the long haul.
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rn 5.    They love being worshipped and thrive in praise and recognition more than criticism. That is why they will welcome any opportunity to prove themselves. All a woman needs to do is take notice and acknowledge the things a man does well, stroke his ego the right way, minimize the noise and presto! A new and improved generous man.
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rn MAN_WOMAN_PIGGY_BACK_621813791.jpgWhen all is said and done, It all boils down one thing and one thing only, they have really huge egos, which need stroking once in a while, and hate them or love them, it’s what makes them men, it’s a fact of nature, it’s what differentiates the Real Men from the boys and I hate to admit it but women secretly love it.

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  • juicy

    i dnt agree with you. I have been with my girl, now my fiancee for 5 years. she has more money than i do.
    I would say, if you are hard working and your gal is understanding, there is no point of feeling insecure. my two cents

  • Wambui

    Bla bla bla… Men will never be satisfied unless they have filtered through "who he is" "what he does" and finally "how much he makes"… if a man is satisfied in those areas, he will never be intimidated by a woman who makes more money than him..

    But Please ladies, never say, we need to talk, find another way to put it.

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